
Love Life Again

Uncover Your True Value And Live With More Peace And Excitement
One Woman
At A Time
One Heart
At A Time
One Woman
At A Time
One Heart
At A Time
To The Woman Who Knows They Were Made For More ... But Feels Empty And Lost
Have you ever found yourself questioning if your life really mattered?
>> Like REALLY MATTERED <<
>>>> Like REALLY MATTERED <<<<
That it mattered in a profound way where it made an impact that rippled through generations. A life that felt whole and complete in all areas instead of a calendar full of doing “all the right things”.
Serving And Volunteering
Getting in a Workout
Meal Planning
Generously giving your time, money, and energy
These activities flood your calendar but drain you emotionally and physically. They’ve created a facade that looks like you have your stuff together but the reality is you feel like you’re completely missing “it.”
In fact, you don’t even know what “it” is
… all you know is that you feel like you’re missing something and it has left you feeling inadequate, out of control and exposed. You’ve searched for the allusive secret, and in the process found yourself repeating the destructive patterns of control, perfectionism, and comparison.
It appears that some women seem to have what you’re searching for, and you desperately want it to be true, but the skeptic in you keeps saying:
“That’s just too good to be true”
Yet … In spite of this pesky inner critic, there’s something about these women that has you convinced that it’s real, and it gives you a sliver of hope that you could trade your patterns of perfectionism and comparison for peace, fulfillment, and excitement.
Friend, I’m on a mission to not only help you see that it is not just possible to discover the true value you possess but to live a life of value defined by peace, freedom, and excitement.
Thousands of Women Have This Priceless Gift - But Never Discover It
Sister, can I just be real with you for a moment?
The truth is that these unhealthy patterns of comparison, control, and perfectionism are not your fault.
They’re simply a result of a faulty system that you were taught. A system and thought process that has left many women like you feeling void of purpose, relevance, and fulfillment.
You’ve been taught that your best life is on the other side of:
- Following the rules
- Being a higher performer
- Thriving Under Pressure
- Continually Outperforming Your Last Best
You’re taught that “doing better” is the missing link, and that everything will change if you’re just willing to put in the work and follow instructions.

Sister, can I just be real with you for a moment?
The truth is that these unhealthy patterns of comparison, control, and perfectionism are not your fault.
They’re simply a result of a faulty system that you were taught. A system and thought process that has left many women like you feeling void of purpose, relevance, and fulfillment.

You’ve been taught that your best life is on the other side of:
- Following the rules
- Being a higher performer
- Thriving Under Pressure
- Continually Outperforming Your Last Best
You’re taught that “doing better” is the missing link, and that everything will change if you’re just willing to put in the work and follow instructions.
… and if you’re anything like me, you’ve spent thousands of dollars on personal development learning how to “put in the work”.
You’ve read all the books, listened to all the podcasts, bought all the courses, attended all the events, and regardless of your achievements you still felt like you were missing something and you’ve started to wonder …
Is this really as good as life gets?
Here’s what I’ve found: your endless effort of “doing better” has left you without an identity
… and you realize that, at the end of the day, you wouldn’t know who you are if everything in your life were stripped away. Subconsciously you’ve slowly been drifting further and further away from the woman who was confident in the value she brought to the world around her.
Your Identity Crisis
You’ve embraced the labels and expectations of others for so long that it’s difficult to love the women that you see in the mirror. Instead of feeling free to be the woman that God made you to be you feel burdened by shame and guilt that you do want more and aren’t not more grateful for what you have. Instead of pursuing your desires you hide them and cover them up.
Friend, may I take a moment to just speak life over you?

1. There's nothing missing
2. Nothing is broken and needs to be fixed
3. There's nothing wrong with you

Friend, may I take a moment to just speak life over you?
1. There's nothing missing
2. Nothing is broken and needs to be fixed
3. There's nothing wrong with you
It's Ok To Want This...
Feel Free In Your Own Skin
Pursue Your Passions Unapologetically
Smile More
Be At Peace
These are good desires and they’re all available to you.They’ve just been buried. Which is actually really good news because your answer is inside of you.
How can I say this so confidently?
Because I’ve lived it and walked out the other side.
Honestly … I’m Blessed To Still Be Alive

For most of my life, I've been striving for the affection and approval of others. I grew up in a family that, from the outside looking in, it looked like we had it all together.
My parents were well known in the community and my brothers were hockey stars that were constantly being praised for their achievements.
I loved being part of the team and felt proud to be part of my family. I was willing to do anything for their approval and wanted to make my family proud. I started to focus on doing everything "right" because one of my greatest fears was that I would make them look bad.
Yet as I got older that became harder and harder for me. I started to struggle in school and felt the pressure of "having it all together."
I desperately wanted my parents approval but it never seemed like I was enough. So instead of trying to do everything right … I just gave up trying. As I finished high school I didn't go to college and felt like I was a big disappointment and let my family down.
Honestly … I’m Blessed To Still Be Alive

For most of my life, I've been striving for the affection and approval of others. I grew up in a family that, from the outside looking in, it looked like we had it all together.
My parents were well known in the community and my brothers were hockey stars that were constantly being praised for their achievements.
I loved being part of the team and felt proud to be part of my family. I was willing to do anything for their approval and wanted to make my family proud. I started to focus on doing everything "right" because one of my greatest fears was that I would make them look bad.
Yet as I got older that became harder and harder for me. I started to struggle in school and felt the pressure of "having it all together."
I desperately wanted my parents approval but it never seemed like I was enough. So instead of trying to do everything right … I just gave up trying. As I finished high school I didn't go to college and felt like I was a big disappointment and let my family down.
So I set out to prove my worth and value by joining a network marketing company.
I thought that if I was massively successful then I could win their approval. This is where I was introduced to personal development and immediately saw growth and felt like I found a community of people.
I was taught that in order to succeed I needed to do two things:
"Find someone who has what I want, do what they do, and you'll get what they got. "
"Fake it until you make it."
These two ideas lead me down a path where I completely lost my identity and felt stuck in an endless cycle of addiction, skepticism, and brokenness. My self worth was at an all time low. I had been used by others for their personal gain, been through rehab twice, and felt like my true personality was too much for people and pushed them away.
Happiness felt like it was just on the other side of all my "When I" ...
- Have more money
- Have more time
- Learn to be a better friend
- Tone down my personality
- Communicate better
- Get married
In other words, when I learn how to "do better" then I'll be happy. I just needed to find the "silver bullet" … which I thought would be marriage.
I was tired of feeling fake. So much that when Rogelio and I got married I chose not to wear any makeup. This is saying a lot considering that I was a professional makeup artist.
Yet that wasn't true. One day I came home early from a trip and Rogelio didn't know that I was home and I heard him having a conversation on the phone and he said, "I haven't even told Brandi yet." At first I was furious that he was holding something back, but then I broke down. I knew that this life of discontentment, comparison, and control had nothing to do with other people. It was me who needed to change.
I fell on my face asking God for direction and willing to yield myself to His direction for more peace and fulfillment. I lead me to hire a coach for a year, and we began to uncover thoughts and beliefs that have been sabotaging my results for years. We started to heal the trauma, uncover the essence of God made me to be, and explore the desires He had put on my heart.
I began to shift my focus from DOING to BECOMING … and do you know what I found?
I found that I love the person that God made me to be, and the self-doubt that challenged my worth and authenticity was gone. I started to pursue the life I desired with boldness and confidence instead of shrinking back with the cynical belief that it was too good to be true.
And the results … as I mentioned earlier I've started to walk confidently in my decisions without needing the approval of others, and I've seen my relationships and business flourish like never before. My kids want to spend time with me, my marriage is more intimate both physically and emotionally, and our business had the best year it's ever had as we doubled our production from the previous year.
So I set out to prove my worth and value by joining a network marketing company.
I thought that if I was massively successful then I could win their approval. This is where I was introduced to personal development and immediately saw growth and felt like I found a community of people.
I was taught that in order to succeed I needed to do two things:
"Find someone who has what I want, do what they do, and you'll get what they got. "
"Fake it until you make it."
These two ideas lead me down a path where I completely lost my identity and felt stuck in an endless cycle of addiction, skepticism, and brokenness. My self worth was at an all time low. I had been used by others for their personal gain, been through rehab twice, and felt like my true personality was too much for people and pushed them away.
Happiness felt like it was just on the other side of all my "When I" ...
- Have more money
- Have more time
- Learn to be a better friend
- Tone down my personality
- Communicate better
- Get married
In other words, when I learn how to "do better" then I'll be happy. I just needed to find the "silver bullet" … which I thought would be marriage.
I was tired of feeling fake. So much that when Rogelio and I got married I chose not to wear any makeup. This is saying a lot considering that I was a professional makeup artist.
Yet that wasn't true. One day I came home early from a trip and Rogelio didn't know that I was home and I heard him having a conversation on the phone and he said, "I haven't even told Brandi yet." At first I was furious that he was holding something back, but then I broke down. I knew that this life of discontentment, comparison, and control had nothing to do with other people. It was me who needed to change.
I fell on my face asking God for direction and willing to yield myself to His direction for more peace and fulfillment. I lead me to hire a coach for a year, and we began to uncover thoughts and beliefs that have been sabotaging my results for years. We started to heal the trauma, uncover the essence of God made me to be, and explore the desires He had put on my heart.
I began to shift my focus from DOING to BECOMING … and do you know what I found?
I found that I love the person that God made me to be, and the self-doubt that challenged my worth and authenticity was gone. I started to pursue the life I desired with boldness and confidence instead of shrinking back with the cynical belief that it was too good to be true.
And the results … as I mentioned earlier I've started to walk confidently in my decisions without needing the approval of others, and I've seen my relationships and business flourish like never before. My kids want to spend time with me, my marriage is more intimate both physically and emotionally, and our business had the best year it's ever had as we doubled our production from the previous year.
The Real Problem
Sister, your problem is not that you need to learn how to “do better” or find a missing piece in life. Your problem is that you’ve created an identity out of your circumstances instead of operating from the identity found inside of you.
Striving to change the outside circumstances will always leave you feeling empty. True and lasting change is always an inside job and it’s necessary to change the beliefs that have buried the truth of who you are under the endless activities of “doing better.”
Are you ready to remove these blocks and live a life that aligns with your true identity?

The Real Problem
Sister, your problem is not that you need to learn how to “do better” or find a missing piece in life. Your problem is that you’ve created an identity out of your circumstances instead of operating from the identity found inside of you.
Striving to change the outside circumstances will always leave you feeling empty. True and lasting change is always an inside job and it’s necessary to change the beliefs that have buried the truth of who you are under the endless activities of “doing better.”
Are you ready to remove these blocks and live a life that aligns with your true identity?

What I Learned From Spending Over $100k On Personal Development In One Year
One thing you should know about me is that when I commit to something I go ALL IN. When I believe in something I am quick to take action. Needless to say, this type of behavior has allowed me to step into miracles but also on a few land mines.
My desire for you is to learn from my mistakes and avoid these pitfalls all together. As I went all in on “doing better” I spent over $100k on personal development in one year and over $300k in a three year period, and in the process I uncovered three myths that I was believing that were blocking my results.
This belief lead me down an endless path of comparison and inadequacy. I was holding the belief that my results would change when I found the right people, but what I found is that these people rarely had what I wanted. Sure, they may have had success in a certain area but they didn’t possess the peace or relationships that I desired.
My husband and I operate a landscaping business, and he taught me that a seed will flourish if it’s planted in the right soil with the right nutrients. I realized that my transformation was going to come when I spent more time cultivating the soil of my heart instead of copying the behaviors of others. I had to become the person who was good soil that would allow the seeds of personal development to sprout.
In my effort to “do all the right things” I found myself always needing validation from others. This perspective kept me trapped in perfectionism, comparison, and control as I was determined to prove my worth through the acceptance of others.
What I discovered is that your desires are God-given and unique to you so He can express Himself into the world. These desires were clues to my identity and the more I embraced these desires as a gift from God the more I felt worthy of them. I started to fall in love with myself and began to feel free from the burdens of perfectionism, comparison, and control.
I quickly saw change when I first started my personal development journey. It was refreshing and exciting. However, I stunted my growth because I kept doing the same things and attending similar events. I held the belief that growth would come as long as I was staying plugged in to personal growth teachings.
I knew that something needed to change if I was going to experience new growth. I started to make bigger investments into my personal growth and noticed that I was showing up differently than before. These investments required faith and required me to operate in a level of uncertainty that I wasn’t used to. Yet, time and time again, I saw them producing fruit.
It’s Time To Stop Doing And Start Being

Friend, I want you to experience the peace and excitement for life that I have found, and it would be amazing if you didn’t have to spend multiple six figures to do it. I truly believe that it’s something I had to walk through so you don’t have to.
Why?
Because I feel like there's a duty on my life to share it with people and help them avoid the pain and mistakes I walked through. It would keep me awake at night knowing that I had something this valuable to share and I was keeping it to myself.
To do this I’ve created a unique program that offers you this transformation along with a community to help you walk it out.
Bottom line: I'm a huge fan of going straight to the source. I recognize that I'm not the be all end all. I'm bringing these women directly to you instead of teaching you what I've learned from them.
I'm giving you access to the community of women who walked through my struggles with me and championed me along the way. These women helped get me through to the other side.
The side of Peace. Excitement. Adventure. True freedom
It’s not a magic formula, and it’s not easy
… but it is simple.
Here's Your Next Step
Just like my journey, your next step involves investing in yourself. An investment that may require faith and walking into a small amount of uncertainty.
Trust in the fruit of what this group of women have produced in the lives of thousands of others who are walking alongside them.
Trust in the atmosphere where it is safe to grow, nurture and love the woman you were created to be, with others on the same journey.
Trust in the simplicity of having one place to feed all areas of your soul.
Take the next step of trust to begin walking in who you were created to be with a tribe of powerful mentors and community to walk alongside you. Together we will experience a new growth in every area of your life.
For The One Who Believes Program

- 9 week video course and workbook ($7,875 value)
- 12 LIVE group mentorship calls with me and other experts ($6,300 value)
- Lifetime access to the course ($4,985)
- Online Community to gather and ask questions ($360 value)
Total Value: $19,520 $997
For The One Who Believes is a 9-week course and mentorship program designed to guide you to a place of peace and excitement because you know and believe that ALL things are possible.
You’ll be part of a community that is a safe environment for you to grow and nurture your relationship with yourself, your Heavenly Father and all those you influence in your daily lives. Be encouraged by 10 powerful women who have not only uncovered these truths for themselves but have also walked other women into freedom.
What You Will Learn
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Week 1 - Compassion
How have you been treating yourself?
Have you been judging your decisions?
Or have you been telling yourself how loved and strong you are?
Katie Hermann is here to teach you how to follow God’s commandment: Love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:39).
She will show you 3 obstacles that stop you from loving yourself and being aligned with your true identity.
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Week 1 - Compassion
How have you been treating yourself?
Have you been judging your decisions?
Or have you been telling yourself how loved and strong you are?
Katie Hermann is here to teach you how to follow God’s commandment: Love your neighbor as yourself (Matthew 22:39).
She will show you 3 obstacles that stop you from loving yourself and being aligned with your true identity.
Week 2 - Self Care
Are you a 5 minutes face girl or you’re all about self care?
Have you been taking care of yourself with makeup only, trying to hide your bad night of sleep?
Kathleen Michelle teaches us how to take care of ourselves in all areas of our lives. Selfcare is way more than looking good, but feeling good about who you are.
Forget about the 5 minutes face, it’s time to start looking good from the inside out. You deserve it, girlfriend!
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Week 2 - Self Care
Are you a 5 minutes face girl or you’re all about self care?
Have you been taking care of yourself with makeup only, trying to hide your bad night of sleep?
Kathleen Michelle teaches us how to take care of ourselves in all areas of our lives. Selfcare is way more than looking good, but feeling good about who you are.
Forget about the 5 minutes face, it’s time to start looking good from the inside out. You deserve it, girlfriend!
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Week 3 - Prayer
Having a strong relationship with God begins with a good prayer life.
Praying is way more than asking God for the things you need or want. It is being vulnerable and opening your heart to him, surrendering every aspect of you and your life so that he is the one ultimately in control.
Meet Thais Eliasen, a prayer warrior who has been cultivating a relationship with God since she was a little girl. Her experience as a pastor for almost 10 years will inspire you to aid your faith and grow your roots in Jesus.
If you struggle with praying, it’s time to hit the play and learn why and how to prioritize your life in the secret place with our Heavenly Father.
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Week 3 - Prayer
Having a strong relationship with God begins with a good prayer life.
Praying is way more than asking God for the things you need or want. It is being vulnerable and opening your heart to him, surrendering every aspect of you and your life so that he is the one ultimately in control.
Meet Thais Eliasen, a prayer warrior who has been cultivating a relationship with God since she was a little girl. Her experience as a pastor for almost 10 years will inspire you to aid your faith and grow your roots in Jesus.
If you struggle with praying, it’s time to hit the play and learn why and how to prioritize your life in the secret place with our Heavenly Father.
Week 4 - Health
Diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, allergies, syndromes… Have you ever thought about how we can get rid and avoid those diseases?
Our bodies are living miracles! It can heal anything by itself, if we don’t get in the middle of the process. In this module, Mary-Ann Shearer teaches us how we can have a better diet that will improve our health.
Sister, you deserve a better sleep, a better mood, not feeling bloated and the health God designed for you to have. Follow these 5 simple steps and have your life completely changed! Treat your body the way it was designed and intended for you to treat it!
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Week 4 - Health
Diabetes, high blood pressure, cancer, allergies, syndromes… Have you ever thought about how we can get rid and avoid those diseases?
Our bodies are living miracles! It can heal anything by itself, if we don’t get in the middle of the process. In this module, Mary-Ann Shearer teaches us how we can have a better diet that will improve our health.
Sister, you deserve a better sleep, a better mood, not feeling bloated and the health God designed for you to have. Follow these 5 simple steps and have your life completely changed! Treat your body the way it was designed and intended for you to treat it!
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Week 5 - Positive Language
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it shall eat its fruit.” says the Bible in Proverbs 18:21. The words that come out of your mouth are powerful and crucial when it comes to your relationships.
Summer Dey teaches us today how to improve our communication skills by switching the aggressive terms we use without knowing how bad it can impact those around us.
How can we change our habits? By watching out how we’re feeding our minds and hearts. Check this out!
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Week 5 - Positive Language
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it shall eat its fruit.” says the Bible in Proverbs 18:21. The words that come out of your mouth are powerful and crucial when it comes to your relationships.
Summer Dey teaches us today how to improve our communication skills by switching the aggressive terms we use without knowing how bad it can impact those around us.
How can we change our habits? By watching out how we’re feeding our minds and hearts. Check this out!
Week 6 - Delegating
What is the dream that burns in your heart? What is the business that you have all the vision ready deep inside of you? What’s holding you back? Is that lack of time?
Danielle Fenster is an amazing business woman, mom of four, wife, daughter, mentor, friend, faith model… she rocks! Come learn with her how to deal with everything without having to drop the ball.
When God gives us a dream and mission, we have to do everything that is needed to accomplish that. Trust the process, God will provide!
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Week 6 - Delegating
What is the dream that burns in your heart? What is the business that you have all the vision ready deep inside of you? What’s holding you back? Is that lack of time?
Danielle Fenster is an amazing business woman, mom of four, wife, daughter, mentor, friend, faith model… she rocks! Come learn with her how to deal with everything without having to drop the ball.
When God gives us a dream and mission, we have to do everything that is needed to accomplish that. Trust the process, God will provide!
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Week 7 - Leadership
Community, fellowship, leadership.
Have you ever struggled with those?
Michelle Schaffer came with all her wisdom to uncomplicate it for you. Take all her advice, it is time for you to step in your calling and be a leader just like Jesus led his disciples.
You were born for such a time as this, friend.
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Week 7 - Leadership
Community, fellowship, leadership.
Have you ever struggled with those?
Michelle Schaffer came with all her wisdom to uncomplicate it for you. Take all her advice, it is time for you to step in your calling and be a leader just like Jesus led his disciples.
You were born for such a time as this, friend.
Week 8 - Generational Legacy
What you do today, how you react, and your choices are the example you’re giving to your children. Possibly, they will do life very similar to how you do.
Let’s reflect on the legacy we’re giving to the next generations?
Erin Hudson shared some tips on how to choose and apply intentionally the values onto your next generations.
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Week 8 - Generational Legacy
What you do today, how you react, and your choices are the example you’re giving to your children. Possibly, they will do life very similar to how you do.
Let’s reflect on the legacy we’re giving to the next generations?
Erin Hudson shared some tips on how to choose and apply intentionally the values onto your next generations.
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Week 9 - Beliefs
Who do you believe you are?
How do you see yourself?
Do you feel like you are a “doing” human, always doing something?
Sister, it is time to just BE who God created you to be.
This is our very last module, when you’ll learn with Hannah Keeley the biggest secret of life: the BEING!
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Week 9 - Beliefs
Who do you believe you are?
How do you see yourself?
Do you feel like you are a “doing” human, always doing something?
Sister, it is time to just BE who God created you to be.
This is our very last module, when you’ll learn with Hannah Keeley the biggest secret of life: the BEING!
Here's a Recap Of Everything You'll Get

- 9 week video course and workbook ($7,875 value)
- 12 LIVE group mentorship calls with me and other experts ($6,300 value)
- Lifetime access to the course ($4,985)
- Online Community to gather and ask questions ($360 value)